Aswarby Rectory Wedding: A country house wedding in Lincolnshire
Charlotte and Ryan chose Aswarby Rectory for a relaxed spring wedding that unfolded entirely within the house and gardens. They both got ready at Aswarby Rectory, held their ceremony beside its distinctive fireplace and spent the afternoon celebrating outside with their friends and family.
I was there on the day from the morning preparations through to the start of the evening party. What stood out was not simply how beautifully everything had been styled, but how easy the day felt. Aswarby works particularly well for this kind of wedding because its different rooms allow each part of the day to have its own atmosphere without guests feeling as though they are constantly being moved from one formal setup to another.
Getting ready at Aswarby Rectory
One of the great things about getting married at here is that you can both get ready there in the morning and not fear bumping into each other. Perfect for couples who choose to follow the wedding tradition of not seeing each other before the wedding. There are separate ‘wings’ to the home with plenty of room to get ready in your areas with friends and family. Ryan chose to get ready with his groomsmen and Charlotte, with all of her bridesmaids. Charlotte then shared a moment with her parents for the first time that morning at the bottom of the stairs which was adorned with flowers.
An indoor ceremony at Aswarby Rectory
The ceremony was an intimate celebration in the main ceremony room (once the house's kitchens!). The room features an iconic fireplace which couples always choose to dress with stunning fresh flowers and candles. It creates a beautiful backdrop to your ceremony photos if you opt for this.
Friends and family, including the adorable flower girls, delivered beautiful readings that tugged at everyone's heartstrings. After vows and rings were exchanged, we all moved to the front of the house for confetti. I don't know about you but for me, the confetti photos are my favourite photos of a wedding day.
Confetti and drinks in the gardens
As the front of the house is so beautiful, we opted to have family group photos after the confetti at that spot. Guests then continued celebrations at the rear of the house, in the garden. At one point it did rain - it was Spring after all and there was plenty of room inside the house for everyone to escape into. The rain shower didn’t last long, nor did it dampen spirits. After the guests ventured back outside, the couple and I took the opportunity to get some photos inside on the beautiful staircase.
“Everybody who has looked through our photographs has commented on how natural everything looks, and how much joy you can see on everyone’s faces! Exactly what we wanted! We are so happy we chose to have Gina as our wedding photographer.”
Blush-pink spring wedding flowers and styling
There is very little to do in terms of ‘dressing’ or styling weddings at Aswarby Rectory. Many couples opt for more stylish understated details and pretty fresh florals - think classic romance and elegance. Charlotte & Ryan's styling was a perfect blend of blush pink and white, creating a soft and romantic atmosphere. From the bridesmaids' dresses to the table settings, every detail was thoughtfully coordinated to reflect this elegant colour scheme. Charlotte looked radiant in her Rembro wedding dress. The boho-esque gown with its lace details and flowing silhouette, perfectly complemented the simple elegant style of the wedding day.
The wedding breakfast and golden hour
The wedding breakfast room in Aswarby is probably my favourite room in the house - its so light and airy with period features. The room was set up with two long trestle tables and a top table near the sash window. Simple decor works best in this room. Bud vases and candles and you’re good to go! Once the meal is over, the room is turned around for the evening dancing. Charlotte & Ryan opted for a live band and cut the cake in their ceremony room to kick things off.
In the evening there was also time to enjoy the luscious golden hour. The sun sets at the front of the house where golden dappled light dances everywhere. It’s a beautiful spot for ‘couple photos’. You can even walk outside on the road that leads to the house as its so quiet and soak up even more of the golden sun.
As the sun set on their perfect day, Charlotte and Ryan left Aswarby Rectory with hearts full of love and memories to cherish for a lifetime. Their wedding was a true testament to the beauty of spring and the magic of love.
Planning your own Aswarby Rectory wedding
Aswarby Rectory is particularly well suited to couples planning an intimate wedding where the emphasis is on spending time with their guests. Both partners can get ready at the house without seeing one another, ceremonies can take place indoors or outside, and the gardens give guests somewhere to mingle without the day feeling overly formal.
From a photography perspective, the house works well in changeable weather because there are attractive, light-filled spaces indoors as well as the gardens and front of the Rectory. The staircase, ceremony-room fireplace and sash windows are all beautiful, but the venue is at its best when it is allowed to feel like a home filled with people rather than a succession of elaborate photographic backdrops.
